Tactile Sensitivity – What It Is? TEN Common Signs


What is tactile sensitivity?

Tactile sensitivity or hypersensitivity is an unusual or increased sensitivity to touch that makes the person feel peculiar, noxious, or even in pain. It is also called tactile defensiveness or tactile over-sensitivity. Like other sensory processing issues, tactile sensitivity can run from mild to severe.  It is thought to be caused by the way the brain processes tactile input. For these individuals, touch makes the person feel overwhelmed and often leads to avoiding touch when possible. They may be sent into fight or flight over very small, everyday touch sensations.

Hyposensitivities and HypersensitivitiesThe Goodenoughs Get in Sync ~New Edition~ 5 Family Members Overcome their Special Sensory Issues by Carol Knanowitz,.

It’s interesting to note that there are also individuals who have tactile under-sensitivity, also called tactile under-responsiveness. Those who are hyposensitive to tactile input are underwhelmed by the world around them and seek out additional sensory information to feel content. They can’t feel large changes in temperature or wind on their body etc.

An excellent book for you and your family to learn about sensory issues is The Goodenoughs Get in Sync ~New Edition5 Family Members Overcome their Special Sensory Issues by Carol Knanowitz,. Read my review of this book here.

A Great book:  Issue Tissue Featuring Ricky Sticky – A Children’s Book About Overcoming Tactile Sensitivity by Maya Wolf, MBA, OTR/L, and Mara Schwartz, BA. Review here.

Ten Common Signs of Tactile Sensitivity

People with autism spectrum disorders (ASD) and cognitive disabilities often experience varying degrees of tactile sensitivity. Parents should be aware of the ways a very young child might react when he is overwhelmed by sensory overload because it will probably manifest itself with behavior problems or meltdowns. This is his only way of communicating his tactile sensitivity.




The individuals I know who have tactile sensitivities likened their unpleasant feeling to the way some people cringe at the sound of a fingernail scratching a blackboard. I have a granddaughter with tactile sensitivities; therefore I know how difficult it is for parents of a young child with the same issues. Some parents say they live in the “Land of TOO” – too hot, too cold, too bright, too tight, too hard, too rough, etc. These are some of the common signs of tactile sensitivity parents can see in their child. Each child may be different and the severity of the reactions will vary.

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  • They dislike clothing, shoes, hats, mittens. They complain about the tags, the fastening, the type of fabric, the style, etc.
  • They hate to have their hair combed, washed, or cut.
  • They are the children who do not want to get their hands dirty or do not want to touch many things because it feels unpleasant. They rush to wash or wipe their hands making it difficult to finish what they are trying to do. Messy art classes are awful for them.
  • Some toddlers refuse to be held or touched.
  • Others are unable to tolerate the sensation of food in the mouth or food or a tooth brush touching their teeth. Bringing them to the dentist is a nightmare!
  • In severe cases a child may even refuse to swallow food.
  • They cry out in pain because of the feel of the wind on their skin or sand and grass on their feet.
  • Their eyes might be very sensitive too and they will need to blink at the slightest amount of cold wind.
  • For some individuals tickling can be intolerable.
  • Some have difficulty participating in gym activities or sport teams because the foot gear and sport uniforms are just simply too uncomfortable.

Parents should also know that tactile oversensitivity also interferes with the development of fine motor and gross motor skills and may impede other developmental milestones. A young child explores and learns about his world by touching and mouthing; however, children with sensory challenges miss out on gathering information from people and things because they avoid touch and do not want to interact with others or their environment.

How Is Tactile Sensitivity Treated?

The good news is that as soon as a child is evaluated with sensory processing difficulties, they can receive help from an occupational therapist. A plan for tactile desensitization will be drawn up and therapy sessions by the OT will be scheduled. Parents will be shown techniques that may include a “sensory diet” or the use of a “sensory box” they can use at home to help their overly sensitive child. With time and treatment, the amount of tactile stimulation your child can tolerate will increase.

Occupational therapy with a sensory integration approach typically takes place in a sensory-rich environment at the office of a therapist. During OT sessions, the therapist guides the child through fun activities that are designed so the child is constantly challenged. The activities are usually “framed for success” so the child feels happy and proud of his accomplishments.

I suggest you check the books in the category Sensory Issues on Special Needs Book Review . Two books about parenting a child with sensory issues and interviews with the authors I often recommend to parents are the following:

Other helpful posts: 

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  • Liz Smith Posted March 26, 2014 10:21 am

    I recently posted about this topic at luckyandme.com, where you can find itch-free underwear for boys and girls. Check out my post on “Raising a Sensory Smart Child” at http://www.luckyandme.com/raising-a-sensory-smart-child/
    Liz Smith

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted December 10, 2016 8:09 am

      Thanks Liz, for telling us where to get “itch-free” underwear and about yur post on raising a sensory smart child. I like this comment from your post< Another lesson I've learned in life is it's important to get the basics right to free up our energy to focus on the important tasks. > All the best with your company! Lorna

      • Anna Posted May 8, 2017 5:55 am

        Hi, I have a very smart child who has major isensory issues. Her coordination is not poor enough for dyspraxia to be the diagnosis but she does has nypermobility of her joints which has caused clumsiness. However recently the sensory issues with clothing and shoes are becoming very difficult to cope with and lead to her being late for school or absent altogether on rare occasions where she can’t be calmed or soothed. I’m at the end of my tether today when no pair of shoes could go on without her crying and screaming in ‘pain’, sometimes it’s the restriction, sometimes it’s seams or fabric, sometimes it is the socks and shoes combined. Help….

        • Lorna dEntremont Posted May 8, 2017 9:39 am

          Hello Anna, Yes, I can see how your child’s sensory issues are difficult for her and for you. I remember going shopping almost a whole day for new school sneakers with our grandchild with sensory issues. We tried many, many pairs of sneakers. NOT one was comfortable enough. On our return she asked her grandfather to glue and fix what was wrong with her old sneakers so she could start the first day of school in shoes she could tolerate. He did this and it worked for a bit but eventfully new sneakers had to be bought. To help her with the socks, her mom figured out if she but them in the dryer a bit while she was getting breakfast that they became softer, cosy warm and she could put them on, adjust them a few times, and finally put her feet in the sneakers. Perhaps it is time for your child to see an occupational therapist who helps kids with sensory challenges. All the best, Lorna

  • noreen Posted May 19, 2014 8:39 am

    I wrote a children’s book about this for my 2 daughters. We hope it can bring understanding to more children. Health and Happiness, Noreen.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted May 19, 2014 8:57 am

      Thanks for telling us about your book, I’ll tell you why I can’t wear those clothes!Talking about tactile defensiveness Noreen O’Sullivan.I see Jessica Kingsley Publishers say, “A perfect book for children, families, teachers, therapists and other professionals dealing with tactile defensiveness suitable to be read with children aged 4 and above.” http://www.jkp.com/catalogue/book/9781849055109

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  • Rachel Posted June 28, 2016 2:24 pm

    I would like to get connected with others who experience this hypersensitivity. I experienced it all throughout my childhood very serverely with clothing, shoes, anything of that sort and then sometimes food, dirt on my hands or feet and much more. I still have mild hypersensitivity but i have much improved in the last 12 years of my life. ( im 24 now). Email me at rachiezzz@hotmail.com if you can relate. I never knew anyone who experienced these things like i did. Ive never been diagnosed with any kind of autism and i dont think i should be but i dont completely know why i would feel so terrible by certain things physically. I acted as though i was mollested but i was not. Im thinking about this now because i tried wearing contact lenses the other day and it made me very emotionall.. I cant stand having things in my eyes. I also cannot wear tampons, cant wear my socks right side in as the seems touch my toes, i still cut tags and so on.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted June 28, 2016 3:51 pm

      Hello Rachel, One can have sensory processing issues and not have autism but it seems often individuals with autism have sensory issues also. There is a lot of information on Sensory Processing Disorder, SPD, and lots of books written on the topic. We have a Special Needs Book Review site http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com and one of our categories is «sensory issues”. One book that could be helpful is the following which we reviewed:”Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism” by Jennifer McIlwee Myers http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com/2014/10/14/growing-sensory-issues-insider-tips-woman-autism-jennifer-mcilwee-myers/ We also have an interview with Jennifer McIlwee Myers. Hope this is helpful. Lorna

    • Cherie Posted August 5, 2016 6:48 am

      Have you been checked for fibromyalgia? You are a copy of my process of living! Simple touch of my husband rubbing my arm sends me packing, the wind, TV, tags, wrongside out socks, softy pjs and still wear them wrongside out due to the seams scratching me, and numerous other things, even touching something cold overwhelms my brain and body in pain, it’s like the fingernail on chalkboard effect but releasing pain throughout your body as well. Prayers for you!

      • Lorna dEntremont Posted August 8, 2016 2:40 pm

        Cherie, what you describe that you have could also be due to sensory issues. I am not familiar with the symptoms of fibromyalgia. Lorna

    • T Posted August 11, 2016 12:13 am

      Hey, I have the same thing. It started when I was 24 when I was taking lamictal (a mood stabilizer) for other issues. One moment I was fine and the next moment my skin felt super sensitive to clothes and even my own body hair. I can describe it as ants crawling… Now, after two years, it became like background noise to me. I try to adapt by wearing more loose clothing, but it’s always there… Sometimes I would have an actual bug crawling on me, but wouldn’t notice, because I’m so used to the feeling being nothing. My doctors can’t help me.. I was given something against nerve pain but it doesn’t help at all (obviously, since this isn’t pain) It’s now been two years and it’s not going away. I wish I had a Dr House to tell me what I have… I don’t have autism, I’m a perfectly normal individual, a master’s student, a human rights activist etc. It freaking sucks, I can honestly say this has reduced my quality of life greatly.

      • Lorna dEntremont Posted August 11, 2016 10:53 am

        Thanks Rachel for sharing your story…and I wish it had a happier ending. Folks do not have to have autism to have Sensory Processing issues; however, many who have autism do have sensory challenges also. Have you tried sessions with an occupational therapist? Perhaps this would be helpful. All the best with your studies! Lorna

      • Amy Posted May 1, 2017 1:38 pm

        Hi do you have a sensitivity to paper too? Are you still on Lamictal? Thank you

    • Pin Posted March 7, 2017 6:32 pm

      I am 70 now and have only non-formal confirmation of Asperger’s Syndrome. You sound very Aspie to me. I overcame my sensitivities pretty much of my life by just toughing it out where I couldn’t make adaptations. I lived most of my life in the country for the relative quiet, but now I’m stuck in the city and someone’s electronic pest repeller is killing me with sleep deprivation and constant anxiety. I’m having a terrible time convincing anyone of this semiconstant vibration through the floor. I bought a memory foam for my bed, but waiting for delivery is hell. Most of the things you list also bother me. I also have PTSD, which makes meltdowns more likely.

      • Lorna dEntremont Posted March 8, 2017 11:20 am

        Thanks for reading our post on Tactile Sensitivity and taking the time to write a comment. Sorry to read that you now must live in the city and that your symptoms of sensitivity have become worst. Hope you find solutions to help you feel better. Lorna

    • Lauren Posted April 14, 2017 12:08 am

      Hey, Rachel, I get the same thing. I can’t wear tight clothing because it irritates my skin. And I also cut tags off of clothing. I can’t stand the way socks feel so I just gave them up. Anyway, this may be just a very very long phase since I’m only 12.

      • Lorna dEntremont Posted April 14, 2017 7:30 am

        Thanks Lauren for leaving a comment. Unfortunately for most these sensory issues stay with them for life; however, they learn what bothers them most and avoid the irritants. Also with an occupational therapist’s help they do get better. Now one can buy clothing, shoes, etc. for folks with sensory issues. All the best, Lorna

  • Callie Frye Posted July 20, 2016 1:51 am

    Unfortunately, it’s a bit too late for me to have occupational therapy being at 18 years old. I always knew something was wrong with me but my parents seemed to brush it all off, so now I’m doing my own research. I hope more information like this will one day be much more thought of then it was when I was younger.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted July 20, 2016 2:05 pm

      Thanks Callie for taking the time to comment. Wishing you all the best and that you find ways to cope with the sensory issues that may still affect you.

  • Julia Posted August 31, 2016 9:58 pm

    I developed hypersensitivity later in life around early high school related to stress and anxiety. I was not this way way when I was a child. I’m in my early 20s now and have many sensitivities related to my hands and face for the most part. Especially when my skin is dry, around my fingernails and my knuckles. I have been getting acrylic nails for a year or so now and have found that they really help with my hand sensitivities. I specifically don’t like having things touch the area right around my fingernails and right at the top and wearing the acrylics eliminates things touching these areas. I think this issue is talked about a lot with children but rarely in adults. I am so tired of feeling like a crazy person with these sensitivities. Having to manage this and function as an adult in society is hard. You just can’t scream like a child can, even when you feel like you need to crawl out of your own skin to escape. It sucks. I have a lot of sympathy for kids dealing with this because I know exactly how it feels.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted September 1, 2016 9:49 am

      Julia, thank you so much for sharing something that worked for you so other people with such sensitivities can also try it. Lorna

  • Carol O’Brien Posted October 23, 2016 7:23 pm

    I am searching for a way to help my precious 10 year old grandson.Noise is a problem for him,even his classroom noise,which impacts his concentration and his learning.The seams,tags and textures of his clothing torment him.Yesterday a soda pop was spilled on him and he was almost hysterical until he was washed off.He couldn’t tolerate the sticky feeling and his reaction was almost as if he was being burned.He has a lot of self knowledge and actively seeks out calming situations.He tells me he’d rather feel peaceful than excited.I would like him to be more comfortable in the word and I am also concerned about him being teased by “tougher”kids.

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    • Lorna dEntremont Posted October 24, 2016 7:32 am

      Hello Carol, By reading your comment I can see how difficult it must be for your grandson. In our post we have written, “The good news is that as soon as a child is evaluated with sensory processing difficulties, they can receive help from an occupational therapist. A plan for tactile desensitization will be drawn up and therapy sessions by the OT will be scheduled. Parents will be shown techniques that may include a “sensory diet” or the use of a “sensory box” they can use at home to help their overly sensitive child. With time and treatment, the amount of tactile stimulation your child can tolerate will increase.” There are also many very good parenting books on this topic also. See our Special Needs Book Review site and go under the category “Sensory Issues” -here is the link: http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com/category/sensory/ Also check out this post we wrote titled, What To Do If You Think Your Child Has Sensory Processing Disorder http://kidcompanions.wpengine.com/think-child-sensory-processing-disorder/ Hope this is helpful, Lorna

  • Lisa Posted December 3, 2016 9:06 pm

    Hello, I’ve had a wide variety of sensitivities almost all my life . I can remember when i was in school having to go to therapy at school. I am 49 now and have so many more sensory issues that my kids tell me I should live in a bubble . Some of my sensitivities are to touch smell sights like moving water in a lake on a windy day definitely loud noise . I don’t do well with heights or motion . Just yesterday I was with my daughter in Hobby Lobby and I had found a gift for my oldest son of corse it was very high up on the wall and I had to ask for help so the gentleman brought out a very large and very high ladder because of the height I had to back up and stand in another aisle so I couldn’t see the ladder the gentleman thought I must be crazy and my daughter reassured him that it was ok . I also have quite the list of allergies to go with all of this . At this age and stage in my life would it be beneficial to try to seek therapy because I’m always afraid of losing my motor skills and that would be detrimental for me I don’t like to sit still .

  • Bobbi Posted December 7, 2016 7:15 pm

    My 9 yr old grandson hates to have his fingernails cut, and following the same, walks around acting like he can’t touch a anything, plus he keeps running water over his hands.
    Any ideas?
    Thanks

  • Yogigirl Posted February 1, 2017 10:47 am

    My cat spoons with me at night and often rubs her face and nose on my hands until she gets comfortable. I woke up a couple nights ago with a very bizarre sensation. My cat was rubbing on my hands and I felt a heaviness in my throat and tongue and the sensation that she was literally rubbing her nose along the inside if my throat. I also felt a sense of detachment and had a panic attack.

    I had the feeling last night with a panic attack when she would try to touch me and this morning I am feeling it slightly without any panic attack, but she is not even touching me. I’m under a lot of stress in my life right now and so the panic attack makes sense. But this hand to throat sensation is makes me feel like I might be losing touch with reality.

    I also took a break from Vyvanse over the last few days, but back on it today. I’m hoping that withdrawal is the cause of my symptoms. I’ve been doing a lot of research and breathing to calm myself/stay in reality. I’ve been experiencing tingling in my hands and feet for several months as well, but not sure if it’s related. Going to make a doc appt asap.

    Can someone tell me if my symptoms make sense? Thank you!

  • Ryan Black Posted March 10, 2017 11:37 am

    I have an extremely weird form of this. For me:

    Negative stimuli will induce extreme fight or flight responses: pruned fingers, dried clay, paper towels, cotton towels, most rough things…. I can’t even think about all this without getting goosebumps! I wear sweatpants EVERY. DAY.

    But here is where I differ… I don’t only get negative reactions out of stimuli (sensory defensiveness), but I also get positive reactions out of other stimuli.

    Positive stimuli, will induce extreme comfort: silk, condensated glass, thick lotion is the best 🙂 !!!! , soft skin especially on my belly, oil, most smooth things..

    Any discomfort from the negative stimuli can effectively be comforted from the positive stimuli…

    For most people the largest side effect is poor motor skills because of an illogical sensitivity to the environment. For me, this couldn’t be further from true. . In fact, I’d argue my brain is processing too-well. Better than yours. I can see objects by the way they feel in my mind. It’s like synesthesia. And it’s stable. The reaction I got from cotton when I was 4 is the exact same reaction I get now at 20.

    And I have wayyyyy stronger than average motor skills and I believe it’s correlated strongly to my “disorder” I want to relabel as an “ability”.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted March 10, 2017 1:51 pm

      Thanks Ryan for taking the time to write a comment to help others know more about sensory issues some individuals have. Lorna

  • Ryan Black Posted March 10, 2017 11:57 am

    A little bit ago I commented about how I have symptoms of tactile sensitivity (SPD) but that I also show clear non-symptoms of SPD. After finding people with similar symptoms in OCD forums and SPD forums I finally came across “tactile emotional synesthesia” as being the most accurate diagnosis for what I have. It shares similar symptoms to SPD but is clearly NOT it. Just be careful to distinguish the two. Here is the scholarly article:

    https://www.researchgate.net/publication/23288529_Tactile-emotion_synesthesia

    And here is a video of me playing piano blindfolded using touch as my sole guide.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbBUYYxO00E

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted March 10, 2017 1:50 pm

      Thanks Ryan for explaining your “tactile emotional synesthesia”. Lorna

  • Robin Posted March 17, 2017 11:20 am

    My granddaughter is 8 and shows many of the same reactions to touch that I am reading in these replies. She would go to sleep rubbing the satin edge of her blanket, especially the tucked corner. Doesn’t like pruned fingers, towels, and gas trouble sitting still at meal time. Recently she has complained about it being too quiet at meals when no one is talking. She has flannel sheets on her bed at my house and doesn’t complain but told me the flannel sheets on my bed feel like rubber. She slips between the velour blanket and the satin comforter. She has a great fear of the dentist. At one appointment she ran from the chair and didn’t stop till she was in the parking lot. She is normally a quiet child who loves to cuddle. She is going to the dentist soon to have a cavity filled and is very anxious about this. She will also need braces before long. What suggestions can you give for us to help her through this necessary experience?

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted March 21, 2017 11:44 am

      Hello Robin, Thanks for visiting our site and taking the time to leave a comment. Yes, your granddaughter seems to have all the signs of having sensory issues. Going to the dentist is very difficult for individuals who have this…many things bother them from the bright lights, to the noise or smells, etc. We reviewed a great book that might be helpful. See our post titled “Book Review of Sensitive Sam Visits the Dentist by Marla Roth-Fisch” https://kidcompanions.com/?s=Sensitive+Sam+Visits+the+Dentist
      Also to help her, you can now find lots of clothes, even socks and shoes, with no tags or rough seams. All the best in helping your granddaughter – Lorna

  • Joan Posted March 30, 2017 3:37 pm

    Hello Do you have any advice please for a 10 year old boy I work with. He cannot use pencils to draw or colour in at all but can use a standard pen to write. ts not the actual pencil its when the pencil touches and reacts to the paper. He also has sensitivity issues with some of the paper in the books he uses, he is a clever boy so don’t really think this is a delaying tactic, but it is become increasingly difficult. He has just recently been diagnosed with ASD . Art and craft work leave him anxious and aggressive .

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted March 30, 2017 3:59 pm

      Hello Joan, I wonder if your 10 yr old boy cannot tolerate the “sound” the pencils to paper make. Did you check if the pencils have a certain smell he does not like? Is it the texture of the paper his hands have to touch when he is coloring? Crafts can be a messy affair; therefore, for many children with autism who also have sensory issues this is difficult. Would he try using those tight fitting cloves health care professionals wear so he does not feel the rough paper or messy crafts? Is the paper being used shiny and gives a glare to his sensitive eyes? …so many things can upset these children. Hope this is helpful. Lorna

      • Kinabalu Posted June 19, 2017 6:24 pm

        I sometimes cringe to the feel of certain pencils on paper… they don’t run smooth, as if they had rough parts or splinters that reacted against the paper. Try soft technical pencils instead (the rechargeable ones). Also used to hate the texture of the paper after showering when I was a student and did homework right after, a strange softness to it. I cant stand wearing sandals if i have dirt on my feet, although I can manage walking barefoot everywhere. Just not putting shoes on afterwards (i need to water the sandals first for example). I cant stand tags or certain seams in clothing. I have this thing about passing my hand over the mouse and keyboard as to clean it from any tiny piece lf dirt… all the time!. very easy for me to puke whenever I want. Only thinking about it can trigger it. I cant stand turtle necks too much, or anything touching my neck (may make me puke). Im a designer and have always been moved by the arts. Biggest pleasure would be dipping my hands in a bucket of paint. But never until this year (Im 41) had thought about being sensory sensitive. But it does sound like I may be, right?. I developed graphic dermatitis after giving birth (I can write on my skin with my fingernails). My toddler son is precocious, tested high and seems to have sensitivity to sound, touch and so on. For example he cant stand having paint on his hands!

        • Lorna dEntremont Posted June 19, 2017 7:26 pm

          Hello Kinabalu, Yes, it really sounds like you have lots of sensory issues. One good thing about your story is that you have seen this sensitivity in your son at a very early age and you will be able to help him. I would start with your baby’s family doctor and then ask to have your child evaluated to see if he has sensory processing disorder. Often these children can be helped by an occupational therapist who specializes with sensory issues. To help adults like you, we have a great book to recommend, Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism by Jennifer McIlwee Myers. Here is the review: http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com/2014/10/14/growing-sensory-issues-insider-tips-woman-autism-jennifer-mcilwee-myers/
          Good luck with all this, Lorna

  • Emily Church Posted April 4, 2017 1:09 am

    I’m 21 now, and for my whole life I have been experiencing something like this. I’ve never come across someone with exactly the same problem, though.
    I get the familiar nails-on-a-chalkboard feeling when touching certain things too (thankfully, no heightened sensitivity to sound, sights, smells, etc.) For me, it is mostly after my hands have been wet and then dried. Sometimes it happens randomly, too, but the first several hours after taking a shower, my hands, feet, and thighs are in agony. I feel incapable of touching denim, paper unless it is the glossy type from magazines or textbooks, cardboard, suede (though that one is *all the time*), towels, and worst of all – my own skin. After my hands have dried, one finger cannot touch another finger without pain, unless the hand is enclosed tightly in a fist. I can’t function much. This means that I shower and wash my hands much less often than I should, but I can’t deal with the pain of it. I didn’t discover until high school that Bath & Body Works body lotion is usually very helpful for it. I think my hands feel too dry after having been wet for a period of time, and they need moisture. Some types of lotion make it much, much worse, though. If I don’t have lotion I will absolutely refuse to get my hands wet. If I get them wet without realizing I had no lotion, I will put anything I can on my hands to make them feel better. This includes licking my hands, putting chapstick on them, or putting a sticky substance such as soda, chocolate, or glue. I know it sounds really odd, but it’s the way I have to live. When I was 5-6 years old I began refusing to take a bath without wearing gloves, and my parents describe me as shying away from water even as an infant. They were very dismissive about it though, so I was never able to tell any doctors or try to get it amended as a child.
    To be honest, it truly makes life more difficult than some could imagine. I think it is a major factor in the anxiety and depression I experience. It just feels awful to have such a painful problem and seemingly have no treatment for it, feeling stick with it forever. Not to mention that no one else can understand so I just feel so alone.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted April 4, 2017 10:30 am

      Hello Emily Church, Thank you very much for sharing your story because it can help other people who feel the same way and always thought no one else was like them.

      I am sure each day is difficult for you. My personal sensory malaise comes from touching wet wood. I get that feeling of “finger nails on a blackboard” only thinking of washing a wooden spoon, cutting board, high chair, etc. I cannot have a wooden Popsicle stick in my mouth and must look away when I see others sucking on a wooden toothpick or ice cream spoon. This is easily avoided but for your problems it is much more serious as it happens often every day. I hope that you can explain all this to an occupational therapist who should be able to help you. It is good that you have found cream that helps but there should be many other ways to help you.

      There are many books that would be helpful. “Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism” by Jennifer McIlwee Myers is such a book! I have reviewed it and here is the link: http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com/2014/10/14/growing-sensory-issues-insider-tips-woman-autism-jennifer-mcilwee-myers/
      We also have an interview with the author here: http://www.specialneedsbookreview.com/2015/04/27/interview-jennifer-mcilwee-myers-growing-up-with-sensory-issues-insider-tips-from-a-woman-with-autism/ In the interview she explains well about sensory issues. All the best to you, Lorna

    • Pierrette Posted April 4, 2017 12:58 pm

      I am exactly like you Emily! EXACTLY. 42 years old now and I can barely read your description because I can “feel it!”, right down to the wooden popscicle sticks! I cannot wash wooden spoons and hand washing/drying dishes is AWFUL! So no ? You are not alone ?

  • Kecia Posted April 16, 2017 10:45 am

    Not just a kid problem! I’m 53, and my sensitivities seem worse every year. I experience many of those mentioned by the commenters above. Underwear is a no-go. Clothing tags are out. I’ve tried dozens of styles and fabrics in socks. I have two sets of sheets that work at night but still toss and turn to be comfortable in my skin before I can sleep. It’s a constant creeping sensation that, sometimes, erupts and makes me feel like stripping off all my clothes and running naked for relief.

    Why no attention on this? It sounds as if more people may suffer daily from this than we realize.

    • Lorna dEntremont Posted April 17, 2017 1:56 pm

      Thanks Kecia for explaining how sensory issues affect you. Yes, it is important for others to know that Sensory Processing Disorder is not something one just outgrows. Parents who think their child has sensory challenges have to have their child evaluated and must see that he/she receives help from a pediOT. Lorna

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